The Myth of Meeting Expectations

by Stan Phelps

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This past summer I was in New York City with a colleague from Synergy.  Brad and I were at a rooftop bar waiting to meet a few people before heading over to a networking event.  I noticed a guy sitting on his own for over 15 minutes.  It was obvious that he was waiting for someone.  I struck up a conversation about waiting.  I offered my standard line:

Do you know that we spend 10% of our life waiting?

We started talking about waiting and the importance of being on time.  Right then this guy said something that was a paradigm shift for me [a true 'knock you in your tracks' Tyler Durden moment].

being on time

I’ll paraphase it:

There is no such thing as being on time.  Being on time is a fallacy.  You either are early . . . or you are late.  No one is ever on time.  On time is a myth.

I immediately starting thinking about how this applies to business and the idea of meeting expectations.  I’ve always thought the idea of meeting expectations is a surefire recipe for losing business.  It’s similar to playing prevent defense in football . . . it prevents you from winning.

This new paradigm has only made it clearer for me.  Meeting expectations is a myth.  Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy and Meeting Expectations.  Sorry kids . . . they are all myths.

You either fall below expectations or you exceed. It bears repeating:

‘There is no such thing as meeting expectations’

In a world where 60-80%* of customers describe their customer satisfaction as satisfied or very satisfied before going on to defect to other brands, ‘meeting expectations’ is no longer an option.

The Solution:

purple goldfish onlyMake it a practice to always overdeliver.  Find ways to give a little extra . .  find your ‘purple goldfish’.  Simply set your bar higher than the expectations of your customers.  Provide a little something extra to your customers for ‘good measure’.  Your goal should be to strive to bring unique value to the customer.  Never settle for being seen as a ‘commodity’.

*Nielsen

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1 Gail Gardner January 24, 2011 at 11:05 am

This post hits home for me because I very recently learned a significant lesson – never agree to do what can not be done – and make no mistake about it – there are MANY who will insist that it CAN and you MUST when what they expect is absolutely and unequivocally IMPOSSIBLE.

As soon as you realize that someone’s expectations can not be reset to reasonable you must eliminate working with them because to do anything else will mean failure FOR YOU.

Continuing to work with them will create the situation where you can never exceed anyone’s expectations again because their demands will prevent you from acting dependably FOR ANYONE.
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